In December 2009, two years ago, James and I met in Boston on one of the many excellent "long distance romance" trips that we shared before finally moving together to Dubai. We went to the Harvard Book Store, which is (along with that place in Princeton and Daunt Books in London) one of the best bookstores around. There's something so inviting in the way that the selection is carefully curated and displayed, with notes of recommendation from the well-read staff. And so, in the Harvard Book Store, I said that I loved Alice Munro's writing and James offered to give me this book as a gift. I finally read it in 2011, and loved it. Efficient, crisp short stories that always have that moment of poignancy or stunned surprise, pulling me even deeper into the characters. Like the cold Canadian winter, bundle up in knits and listen to the quiet, and wonder about the thoughts and motivations flowing in the minds of the others bundled up around you.
I loved this story, I loved the characters, I loved the examination of New York culture and political knee-jerk reactions, both liberal and conservative. A contest to design a 9/11 memorial brings together a cluster of jurors, who review the anonymous submissions and choose the one that best fits their vision. The envelope is opened and the winning designer is an American architect named Mohammad Khan. The book explores the ways in which the different characters react to this, including Khan himself. There is the 9/11 widow, the journalist trying to get her big scoop, the wife of a Bangladeshi illegal immigrant who had perished that day, the head of the memorial committee, the brother of a victim whose directionless life finds purpose in fighting the memorial, and the politicians who all approach the announcement with election-minded calculation. There is a public hearing. There are shifts in the steadfast beliefs of the characters. There is uncertainty. And it all comes together in an epilogue that ties everything together, all of the loose ends, in a most satisfying way.
Hub Fans Bid Kid Adieu
John Updike
I bought this for James because he loves baseball, and I decided to read it because I love Boston. In a number of writing classes, the teachers would often bring out John Updike short stories as reading exercises, and just like those, this book was perfect: capturing the mood, the character, the atmosphere of Ted Williams' last game with the Boston Red Sox.
I borrowed James's copy of this book, on his recommendation and read it before our summer holiday in Europe. It captures the spirit of the expat existence so well, wanting to live the romance of a chosen city and yet dealing with the ensuing headaches that come from not actually being a native son or daughter. But more beautifully, it captures the experience of living in Paris. The winters. The dinners at cozy bistros, at which James and I would soon eat on our holiday there. The strolls through the Luxembourg Gardens. The beauty. Truly, a lovely glance into the life of an expat in Paris.
Blood, Bones & Butter
Gabrielle Hamilton
I have been reading a number of bloggers who frequently declare their adoration for Joan Didion, and because of this, I realized that I would like to read some of her writing. While in London, at Daunt Books (again!), I found this book to be the only one of hers available for sale and so I bought it. A collection of essays, which I could read in my hop-around mode, as described in the PJ O'Rourke description above. It was only later that I remembered that I had in fact once owned this same book, not the exact copy, but a hardcover version, purchases from the canalside secondhand shop near Monmouth Junction. But I had never read it, and had donated it during the clean-out phase that preceded my move to Dubai. And so I found myself now reading the White Album, and enjoying it as I started to read in a coffee shop on the Champs Elysees and then finishing it on a 747 flying from Frankfurt to Dubai. "A place belongs forever to whoever claims it hardest, remembers it most obsessively, wrenches it from itself, shapes it, renders it, loves it so radically that he remakes it in his image." Also, how I had I never known that she had this experience, much like my own: "In a few lines of dialogue in a neurologist's office in Beverly Hills, the improbable had become the probable, the norm: things which happened only to other people could in fact happen to me. I could be struck by lightning... "
A native of the Pacific Northwest and new mom takes up yoga and she writes about the experience with the same attitude that I take to yoga - enjoying it for many reasons, but not getting sanctimoniously serious about it. She enjoys many unexpected benefits from a regular practice, both in her strength & physique and in her outlook on life. It reminded me of Vancouver; it reminded me of the little studio in Highland Park that I used to go to, where you could hear the night rainfall outside and the teachers were the most gentle people; and it reminded me of the yoga studios that I visited in NYC, which featured patrons who ranged from lanky supermodel physique obsessives to aggressive financial types to "Wheatpacking District" bohemians, and which could be severe and intense, or nurturing with live guitarists. I was inspired to try to reboot my yoga in Dubai after reading this book, and thought I'd found the answer when a neighbour mentioned a place within walking distance that features drop-in classes. But then the same neighbour had nothing but complaints about the place, and I was getting adequate workouts from running so... well maybe in 2012 I'll start practicing on my crow pose again.
I wrote about how much I enjoyed this book here. As I wrote then, it's about a New Yorker who moves to the Middle East, honeymooning in Baghdad and then moving to Beirut. She writes about the rituals and traditions in each city, the little nuances that make up Middle Eastern life, with a particular focus on food. Having taken an Arabic cooking class this year, this book really enriched that experience, describing so much more about how things are cooked, and why. She also captures the spirit of a traveler, an expat, a nomad. And also helped illuminate some of the tendencies that I observe amongst my coworkers - like, apparently it's a common Lebanese habit to comment on people's weight. Complimenting them on a weight loss, even when the recipient sheepishly protests that they have done no such thing, or stating the obvious when someone returns from a vacation with rounder cheeks, "you gained some weight!"
The Most Beautiful Walk in the World
John Baxter
A birthday present from James that was a lovely way to remember our time in Paris. The writer is an expat living in the city, thoroughly immersed in all of the daily rituals, and he has a keen eye for the unique "only in Paris" details that make you feel like you're walking the streets alongside him.
There's a die-hard Arsenal fan in our household, and thanks to him, I have watched many a match during my time in Dubai. I owned this book many years ago, but after giving it a start, I never completed it. Just didn't pull me in, didn't resonate, didn't make much sense.But now, I have an ambassador to the team, a translator of all the references and lingo that Nick Hornby sprinkles throughout his stories. So we've been reading this together, with many pauses along the way for James to share his own memories of the same games or for me to ask for clarification on a reference. And it's good - it's more than just football, it's sport as metaphor. It's about growing up in England, it's about growing up anywhere, and the challenges that we all face, and the ways in which we get through them. It's about the routines we set up for ourselves, the hobbies we find to channel our energies, and the passion and identification with a group of people on a field. One of my favourite parts about this book has been the way that the chapters are entitled with a phrase and then the football opponents and the date of the match. Almost every time, I only have to read the opponents and the date, and James will instantly know the title. For example, I'll read "Arsenal vs Luton, August 27, 1983," and James will say, "Charlie Nicholas." Or "Liverpool vs Juventus, May 29, 1985," to which James says "Heysel!" Thanks to Nick Hornby, and James' stories during this book, I now have a greater appreciation for the history of what I'm seeing when we watch an Arsenal game.











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